Brainspotting with Relationships
"WHO" you look at affects "HOW" you feel!
"I HAVE A PROBLEM! I cannot stop using these frame setups of Brainspotting with Relationships." — A happily troubled attendee.
"Hi Jaegil, I just wanted to let you know I had a great BSP session with a new client today, using your set-up [frame] for relationships...They have already experienced a lot of different therapies including EMDR, Family Constellations, Gestalt and Sand Play... At end of session...they were saying they felt relief and I feel free. Thank you for your teachings... P.s. this lady is in her late 60s, and relationship stuff with her father since childhood has impacted all her male partner relationships. " — An attendee.
Deborah Davison Antinori, Brainspotting Trainer
So exciting that Jaegil is sharing his wonderful talents in working with relationships. He often assists Sue Pinco and me in our trainings and has Brainspotting deeply "in his bones" as we like to say! He is so very attuned to the Brainspotting Principles and to his clients, to our trainees and to his consultees and trainees, too!
Nancy Tung, Brainspotting Trainer
This specialty workshop with Jaegil Lee and the cohort of amazingly intuitive healers was a real treat! It was very moving to watch the demos shedding layers of burden from unresolved relationships. When doing the practicum, receiving much loving energies from the complicated relational other was another profound way to heal! I got so much healing myself!
I would highly recommend this workshop to anyone!
Thank you Jaegil Lee for sharing your wisdom and knowledge!
"BSP with Relationships" workshop will equip you with tools that will help your clients significantly improve their emotional regulation in the presence of people with whom they have serious relational issues.
These questions may help you understand what this workshop is for.
Do your clients:
· Deeply miss their loved ones who have passed away?
· Have an interest in communicating with loved ones who have passed on?
· Struggle with the death of their family member about whom they are unable to talk due to strong emotional reactions?
· Have attachment issues that negatively impact their relationships?
· Experience dread of seeing their co-worker, boss, relative, or friend out of proportion?
· Feel stuck in a certain relational situation or with unfinished relational businesses?
· Suffer from strong negative emotions, such as hatred, rage, and disgust, which they have toward somebody, and yet do not know what to do?
· Experience nightmares due to relational issues, such as the loss of loved ones or survival guilt?
· Struggle with the fear of encountering their abusers or perpetrators, even after processing their traumas?
· Freeze when they encounter someone who resembles their ex-partner?
If these situations resonate with you, then this training, ‘Brainspotting with Relationships’, is for both YOU and YOUR CLIENTS.
When we encounter another’s face, we encounter ourselves, our inner world, and our anxiety. A face-to-face encounter requires self-regulation.
Unique frame setups will be taught for relational issues with deceased or living grandparents, parents, spouse/partner, children, friends, co-workers, or even your deceased pets. This Specialty workshop is centered on relational issues. At the heart of what often brings people to Brainspotting sessions are relationship problems, such as conflict, guilt, grief/loss (including pet loss), forgiveness, trust, attachment, boundary issues, and any unfinished business.
This two-day workshop will equip you with three innovative ways to set up the frame which will significantly boost your confidence in addressing relational issues.
As a result of this workshop, you will be able to enhance your clients’ capacity to acknowledge their reality, rapidly heal their relational wounds, and view their relational situations with a fresh perspective with increased freedom. I am eager to share with you the novel approaches that have enabled profound healing and resolution for my clients.
Workshop Presenter Jaegil Lee, Ph.D. is an academic mentor and consultant at Brainspotting Programme, International University for Graduate Studies. With over 25 years of professional experience, he has worked as a mental health counselor, spiritual director, ordained clergy, college professor, and meditation instructor. Currently, he is serving more than 20 consultees, guiding them to incorporate Brainspotting into their own practice seamlessly and fearlessly.
Who you look affects how you feel.
Learning Objectives
Participants will review fundamental concepts from Brainspotting Phase 1 & 2, including the Neuroexperiential Model of Brainspotting, Uncertainty, Dual Attunement, WAIT, Tail of the Comet, and more.
Participants will gain a deeper understanding of Brainspotting 's unique approach to framing--"Mindfully receiving, shaping, and holding the frame with the client."
Participants will understand why and when "Brainspotting with Relationships" is helpful and beneficial.
Participants will recognize the benefits of "Brainspotting with Relationships" and learn how to use it as a complimentary approach alongside regular Brainspotting.
Participants will explore the significance of the face in relationships and emotional regulation, based on interpersonal neurobiology.
Participants will understand the unique significance and role of the face in the "orienting response."
Participants will examine the connection between facial expressions and dysregulation.
Participants will learn how to facilitate communication with deceased ones using Brainspotting with Relationships.
Participants will learn and practice three unique setup frames and optimize approaches for addressing to relational issues.
with David Grand, Founder of Brainspotting
Details
When: April 25-26, 2025; 10 AM - 6 PM EST
Where: Live on Zoom
Who: Anyone who has completed Phase 1
What: Three innovative ways to set up a frame for relational issues
Investment: early Standard rates: $535 / Pre-licensed $435 / Student $340 by April 17. (Please let me know if there is hardship regarding the price. Additionally, payment plans are available.)
More Info: Jaegil.lee@gmail.com
* The April workshop is offering a special Consultant (CIT) Appreciation rate of $435.*
Publications
Co-authored with Michael Stoeber, “Christianity: Contemplative Prayer and Yoga” for Routledge Handbook of Yoga and Meditation Studies (New York: Routledge, 2020), pp. 241-254 (https://www.taylorfrancis.com/chapters/edit/10.4324/9781351050753-20/christianity-michael-stoeber-jaegil-lee).
“The Influence of Swami Satyananda’s Meditation on John Main’s Christian Meditation,” Hindu-Christian Studies, Vol. 33, Art. 12 (Fall 2020), pp. 62-75 (https://digitalcommons.butler.edu/jhcs/vol33/iss1/12/).